Attitude Over Altitude
- Toni T. Gibson
- Nov 5
- 3 min read
by Toni Gibson, Contributing Writer
Gratitude in Flight
As we approach this new season of giving, it’s important to pause and reflect on just how grateful many of us are for the careers we’ve worked so tirelessly to achieve. Despite our fair share of scheduling chaos and personal challenges, it’s easy to forget how blessed we are to occupy what some might call a titanium office with skyline views.
As flight crew, we have the rare privilege of seeing the world from 30,000 feet, meeting incredible people along the way, and enjoying flight benefits that are truly second to none. Few professions can offer the peace, privilege, and perspective that come from soaring above the clouds.
Friendships Forged in the Sky
Our experiences are not only remarkable—they’re unforgettable. Lifelong friendships have been built on great layovers, strengthened through late-night dinners, laughter-filled excursions, and sometimes, even through moments of fear or loss.
We’ve supported one another through medical emergencies, unruly passengers, illness, and personal hardships. We are a family—bound not by uniform or airline, but by shared experience. Though we may not always fly the same routes or wear the same colors, our bond transcends airline lines and crew pairings. We are the first responders of the air, and for that, we are proud.
A Common Language, A Shared Journey
There’s a unique rhythm to the life of a flight attendant—a language and lifestyle few outside our community truly understand. We’ve walked the cobblestone streets of hidden towns and explored some of the world’s most sought-after destinations.
For many of us, a layover represents more than a bed and breakfast—it’s a moment of peace, a temporary arrangement from homelessness, or even a safe haven. Whether it’s a chance to recharge from a busy home life, recover from loss, or an escape from an abusive relationship, our time in the air often provides the clarity and courage we need on the ground.
The Pride of the Profession
What we do is not for the faint of heart. It takes strength, discipline, and a servant’s spirit. Less than ten percent of flight attendant applicants make it to the finish line—and even fewer earn their wings.
Our pride speaks volumes about our commitment: to our passengers, our fellow crew members, and the aviation community as a whole. It’s that same steadfastness that fuels our advocacy for better contracts, improved quality of life, and well-deserved respect.
We are the face and the heartbeat of our airlines. Our wings keep us united. Our hearts keep us grounded, humbled, and grateful.
To every flight attendant—past, present, and future—thank you for the courage, compassion, and commitment you bring to the skies. May your attitude always lift you higher than your altitude.
Wheels UP & Wings Out!
About the Contributing Writer
Toni has been a Dallas–Fort Worth–based flight attendant for the past four years and currently resides in Celina, Texas, with her husband, Dewayne, and their three children. Originally from Chicago, Illinois, she has called North Texas home for more than 20 years.
A graduate of Purdue University, Toni also holds an MBA in Business Administration from Keller. She is a proud member of Sigma Kappa Psi Sorority and brings a rich background in creative writing and journalism, having served as a staff writer for two independent newspapers. Her professional experience also spans elementary education, early childhood program leadership as a licensed director, mortgage banking, and healthcare administration.
Beyond her career, Toni shares a monthly self-reflective mantra newsletter on her social media platforms, inspiring others through words and perspective. She is also working toward her private pilot’s license and enjoys building flight hours whenever possible. In her free time, she finds joy in golf, line dancing, cooking, reading, hosting, and making lasting memories with her family while traveling the world.
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